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1:24 pm April 4, 2011
| The Saved Quarter
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Post edited 1:42 pm – April 4, 2011 by The Saved Quarter
I applied for a position as a "frugal family" staff writer for a large website. They've written back and are interested in hiring me. It's a paid position. Good news, right?
Well, they will not let me use a pen name, instead requiring my legal name and a photo. I applied because I thought it would be a great way to promote the blog and build up my readership, but I don't want to give up my anonymity. (Penny Saver isn't my real name – shocking right?) My real name is uncommon and would easily link me to and identify my husband's business, which I've intentionally avoided.
I guess I'm looking for advice. Should I bite the bullet and give up my anonymity to take the position, or pass and keep my name private? Or take the position and not connect it to the blog? (That would suck, BTW, since it's paid based on views and my Facebook/Twitter/blog readers would be a great way to bring in views.)
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1:42 pm April 4, 2011
| Buy Like Buffett
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It depends on how badly you want the position. There are plenty of sites in which you can blog anonymously. However, some of the larger national sites do require that you disclose your bio to the public.
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2:34 pm April 4, 2011
| MyJourneytoMillions
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First, Congrats!
Second, Figure out the dollar amount you are willing to sell your anonymity for then ask yourself, do I have a chance of making that and more?
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2:49 pm April 4, 2011
| martin
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I wanted to be anonymous at first as well but then I just stopped caring eventually. If you want to go all the way with your blog you're going to have to eventually start using your real name. Are you comfortable with that?
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3:26 pm April 4, 2011
| Sustainable PF
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md said:
I wanted to be anonymous at first as well but then I just stopped caring eventually. If you want to go all the way with your blog you're going to have to eventually start using your real name. Are you comfortable with that?
Frugal Trader still hasn't revealed his name and he's doin' pretty darn well.
I think it depends on goals. I'm still not sure under which circumstances you would HAVE to reveal your name – that is, and not be able to achieve success regardless.
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4:31 pm April 4, 2011
| The Saved Quarter
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I think I'm going to stay anonymous for now. The more I think about it, the more I feel like my writing identity is something I'm not willing to sell at this point. I can see instances in which I would have to give up my anonymity – if I went on TV or wrote a book for instance – but not for writing on the internet.
Because my husband's business is a luxury niche, it would be awkward if clients googled our name and found my writing about us living on a very low income. For me, perception isn't all that important, but for his business, it is.
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6:09 pm April 4, 2011
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Given your circumstances, I think you're making the right decision. Sucks to pass that kind of opportunity, but see it as the recognition of great talent that it is and keep on chugging! :)
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6:21 pm April 4, 2011
| JT_McGee
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Post edited 6:22 pm – April 4, 2011 by JT_McGee
Yeah, I'd pass it up too, especially with what you mentioned. It's not worth the risk to your husband's business, no matter how big or small that risk might be. I'd definitely consider it in the future though, that would be an excellent way to get your name out there as far as blogging goes!
I can understand why sites are trending toward the fullname/picture, though. If you put your name on it, you're probably also going to make sure it's 100% awesome, all the time.
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6:48 pm April 4, 2011
| Sustainable PF
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I'd still like to know why Mrs. SPF and I should give up our identities beyond a few trusted individuals.
Anyone?
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7:11 pm April 4, 2011
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@SPF – Zero. Unless you were on the lookout for a paid writing gig like this that required it…
As far as I'm concerned, you can tell a lot about yourself without having your name on something. Sure, if you have a blog about nuclear reactors, it'd probably lend you some credibility to have an About Me page with additional information, including a name/whatever. Personal finance/finance is basic math, and sustainable living doesn't take a doctorate degree to understand–so who cares about credentials?
In some ways, I feel like having personal details about myself, especially age, is sure to hurt me in a few ways. Saying that you're "a college student" is another way to say "I don't know anything about anything" to people who are older. I think that view is most often wielded by people who don't take the time to learn from mistakes of others (since apparently I can't, I'm supposed to learn everything from my own experiences), but hey, that's their problem. I don't talk about anything that is necessarily breakthrough, nor exceedingly difficult to understand, so I don't know why it matters, but I know it matters to some people.
Anonymity makes people evaluate your content for the content, not for the person, which is a good thing, in my opinion. That said, there's still a lot of people who value the packaging more than the content, probably more so than the opposite. Humans…how do they work?
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8:26 pm April 4, 2011
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I can definitely understand your reasoning, but it would be difficult to pass up a paid writing job. In my experience as a blog reader, it seems the bigger and more successful a blog gets, the more difficult it is for the blogger to remain annonymous. As your blog continues to grow, you may also continue to face this conundrum.
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9:49 pm April 4, 2011
| LaTisha @YoungFinances
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I would paid on the position unless you were able to still blog anonymously. Or just make up a real name…
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5:32 am April 5, 2011
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You know what the paid writing gig means?
It means they think your writing is good enough for their site (you said it was a large website). That is awesome!
If you don't want to give up your identity then take the confidence in knowing you CAN get hired at a large site and find a gig where you can stay anonymous.
Or use it as motivation to write more for your site and build that out more.
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10:50 am April 5, 2011
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This is a topic I've struggled with a couple times. I've written my blog anonymously too. I do so because its easier to be candid about personal things that way.
A major down side to anonymity is that it can really cut you out of mass media exposure. The mainstream press really wants full names rather than 'anonymous sources'. They need attributable sources for their reporting, so "anonymous" doesn't work. I had to pass on an offer to write at US News blogs because they wanted first & last name and bios. I also missed out on tying my blog to an interview with SmartMoney magazine cause they wanted full name. I didn't think about that when I started Freeby50.
If I had known I'd be missing such media exposure then I might have used my real name and just limited the candid things instead. Something to think about if you're starting out. You can't easily change it 3 years down the road.
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3:10 pm April 5, 2011
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I was offered a paid writing gig for a site recently. I took it, and have really enjoyed the work. I keep it pretty laid back, and usually only write 2 articles a week. It serves as a little motivation for me when I get a little down about my own traffic, which is normally fairly low.
I struggled with the idea of putting my real name and photo out there. Eventually, I settled on Pat. S as it cannot be associated with a full name, and used my photo. I was happy with that compromise.
As a military member especially, I'm very careful about anything that could effect a security clearance, which is one of the reasons I didn't want to use my full name.
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5:25 am April 6, 2011
| Jackie
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I think it depends on why you are being anonymous. You mention that you don't want it linked to your husband's business, but the why behind that would matter. I blogged anonymously for several years before starting MoneyCrush and now really enjoy no longer being anonymous.
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6:06 am April 6, 2011
| Sustainable PF
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As a newer blog we're still unsure how far down the rabbit hole we will go with exposing our net worth, investments and investment strategy. While we don't care if strangers know this (except those bad people out there) we are somewhat concerned our family may find our site and have insight into our finances we would not share otherwise. Blogging anonymously relieves this stress.
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