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10:02 am
August 8, 2011
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Khaleef @ KNS Financial
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I thought about starting my weight-loss/debt repayment site as an anonymous writer, and then once I completed my goals I would "unmask" myself! But then, I decided that it would be better motivation to tell everyone I know about the site and have them hold me accountable!
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10:38 am
August 8, 2011
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First Gen American
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I worry about my children's privacy as well as potential employers. My day job has nothing to do with writing or the internet and I worry that if someone could find my blog when they search my name (for interview screening or what not), then it may be perceived that I'm not serious about my job when I have such a demanding hobby.
My husband is also very private and I don't think he would like people looking us up and cyber stalking us. I have a handful of people who know it's me (close friends) but in general I prefer staying on the down low.
If I ever got a book deal or something that could make up for the salary from my day job, well, that's another story. I'd come out in a heartbeat.
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12:35 pm
August 8, 2011
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Miss T @ Prairie Eco-Thrifter
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No I wouldn't get fired but I do live in a smaller city where everyone knows each other and I think it would just be awkward. Plus when I meet with patients it could be weird too.
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10:22 pm
August 8, 2011
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Buck Inspire
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Hey JT,
Interesting question about one's reaction to different writers. If the content is compelling, I would react the same.
Hey Amanda,
I guess it's logical readers be more brutal and honest behind the safety of a computer. Do you have a general preference to newspaper readers vs personal blog readers? I'm guessing you need to say you like both, but since both are so different, they would have their own pros and cons.
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10:32 pm
August 8, 2011
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Buck Inspire
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Hi Khaleef,
That's great that the readers who know you hold you accountable. If they didn't know you I'm thinking it would be easier for you to slip.
Hi FGA,
I never thought about potential employers thinking you wouldn't take your job seriously. Are you actively seeking a book deal?
Hi Miss T,
You live in a small city, but do you get into really personal issues about yourself? Don't mind me as I am just talking it out for myself, too. I'm sharing things about personal finance and some fun stuff along the way, but I don't really get too personal. Maybe some silly stories and lessons along the way, but nothing too embarrassing, I think. I don't think it would be too awkward if others knew what I did, but I guess I won't know until I cross that bridge.
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5:43 am
August 9, 2011
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OneCentAtatime said:
This was the same thought I had until I saw how easy it was to find people's names. Simply type in anyone's domain name in front of w3spy.net and it will show who registered the domain.
Buck Inspire- I checked for you, and you're covered. Well played…
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5:51 am
August 9, 2011
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Hello Buck!
The newspaper readers keep me on my toes, but they also make my stomach twist some Monday mornings:). I think I learn more about writing and journalism from my newspaper readers (which makes sense) and more about ideas and ways people are saving money through my personal blog readers. Either way, it certainly rounds me out as a writer.
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Buck Inspire said:
Hey Amanda,
I guess it's logical readers be more brutal and honest behind the safety of a computer. Do you have a general preference to newspaper readers vs personal blog readers? I'm guessing you need to say you like both, but since both are so different, they would have their own pros and cons.
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10:53 am
August 9, 2011
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Suba @ Wealth Informatics
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I write with my real first name. I sort of gave up my identity when I was asked to speak at BlogHer, but refused to give a photo. I am not against revealing my identity, I don't work in a sensitive area. I have the same concern as Sandy (FGA). If they google me and find I have a demanding hobby, it might be a negative factor. I eventually want to do this full time, but it will take a very long time to replace my day job salary. So until then I will lay low, with the idea that if a very good opportunity comes up, I would share my identity and go back under my rock again :)
Actually, if someone "really" wants to find out about any of us, they can. We give enough information (even though we "think" we have been absolutely anonymous) to figure out the basics and guess the rest. For most internet users, they can't figure out, but if someone decides to figure out, they can. So there is no true anonymity.
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6:13 pm
August 9, 2011
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I started out anonymous, but it became apparent to me by the end of the first year that there wasn't any reason to protect my identity. I understand it differs based on each person's personal situation.
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4:02 pm
August 10, 2011
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Buck Inspire said:
Congrats on your excellent brand. Guess I know where you stand, but do you feel your path would have been easier if you had used your real name?
The journey would probably have been somewhat easier, as I feel there is a very small minority of people who just write me off due to the unprofessional sounding handle.
So now I sign a lot of my emails to potential business partners, the media, and other professionals as Luke.
Since my background is not in finance, and I did not have any prior standing as a writer or as someone within finance, using my real name from the beginning wouldn't have added anything in the beginning, but using a name as fake-sounding as Flexo might have slowed down my progress. Nevertheless, it's here to stay until I get a C&D from Matt Groening.
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8:51 pm
August 10, 2011
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Buck Inspire
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Hey Funancials,
Thanks for looking out. I'm sure if someone wanted to, they could dig around and find out info on anyone.
Hi Amanda,
Good for you. As for me, I don't think I could work at a newspaper. Too brutal for my blood. Haha.
Hi Suba,
I agree, but it's kind of sad that a future employer would look down on a blogger. Perhaps we should band together to turn this around. Hard working, dedicated, able to multitask and time manage. All sound like valuable traits to me!
Hey Kay,
Since my situation isn't as defined as others, I'm trying my best to find my sweet spot. I am doing this a lot lately with all facets of my life.
Hey Flexo,
Thanks for your insight. Good to know, Matt Groening should be flattered!
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