There are a million and one reasons to love the Yakezie, but one of the things that brings me back time and again is the vast amount of resources available on just about anything to do with Money Beagle. Whether it be something to do with the blog itself, a topic I want to write about, a dilemma faced by a reader, there’s always somebody available that can lend an ear and offer some practical advice.
Working Together We All Win
Each person here has their particular talents, and by using each other as resources, we can collectively and individually be better and more meaningful bloggers. Any one of us could likely set up a site on WordPress, setup a plugin to prevent comment spam, submit their posts to carnivals, or any other number of things that it takes to run a blog. But, it doesn’t mean that we’re good at it, enjoy it, or that we’re doing it efficiently.
By leveraging other members and challengers in the Yakezie network, we can make those things happen in a way that benefits everybody. Blogger A can set up a WordPress blog that looks OK, and take six hours to do so, or they can work with Blogger B who can set up a smooth looking, easy to navigate site in 2 hours flat. Conversely, Blogger B can offer a wealth of services to Blogger C, who might in turn need something that Blogger A can lend a hand with. It’s one of the best examples of teamwork I’ve seen.
Using each other as resources is key. We have a great community in the Yakezie Forums, where I see the exchange of encouragement, information, knowledge, and services shared every single time I visit.
Beyond the Yakezie
The Yakezie and blogging are just one aspect of how this works. I think of how much happens around my house. When something breaks, I could call a pro to fix it and it would be fixed, but I first look to the resources I already know. My father-in-law is handy and can spot and fix trouble in no time, saving hundreds of dollars in labor. My father is a computer whiz who can identify a problem, correct it, and prevent it from recurring in the future.
Having these types of resources can save money, save time, and build great relationships in many aspects of life. This includes the blogging world, your personal world, or even your professional world.
Keys To Making This Work
Reading about this makes it seem straightforward and easy, right? Not so much. Over the years, I’ve found that making this ‘sharing of expertise’ system work is a fine art that few never master. Some give too much and are taken advantage of. Some ask for favor after favor and never give in return. Others can never say no.
There are a few key things I’ve learned in order to make the use of outside resources a great thing.
- Don’t be a taker – If you’re only asking for help and never giving help, you’ll eventually be seen as a leech. Don’t do that. Chances are you’re good at something and can offer services in return.
- Pick up on subtle requests for help – Some people may want your help with something but won’t outright ask for it. Be able to listen and spot when someone might be talking about a problem they’re having that you can maybe help with, and offer your help.
- Don’t assume – However, don’t assume that someone wants your help. If it seems someone wants help, ask them. They may say no, in which case you don’t want to be forceful.
- Learn when to say no – If you have prior obligations and simply can’t fit in what someone might be asking you to do, don’t do it. But, I would make sure to explain why you can’t help them.
- Take no for an answer – On the flip side, if someone declines your request for help, don’t take it personally. The only exception to this is if someone (or multiple people) seem to say no all the time, you might want to examine if you’ve inadvertently gotten a reputation as a leech.
- Read between the lines – Sometimes I know my father-in-law would be perfect at helping me with something, but I don’t ask him. Why? Because I keep in tune with things that he has going on at his house or his job. If I know that he’s overwhelmed, I know not to ask him.
- Say thank you – If someone helps you with something, make sure to thank them for their time. Nothing turns me off from helping someone in the future than overlooking a simple “Thank you.”
Long story short, working as a team brings so much more opportunity for success than working individually in many situations. The Yakezie is an example of one of the best teams I’ve ever had the joy of taking part it. Make sure you work as a team player and you’ll find the resources you need plentiful and happy to help. If you’re doing it right, you’ll see this branch beyond the Yakezie and in many other areas of your life.
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Great post! What first attracted me to the Yakezie was how much everyone was willing to help everyone else. This group really does live up to the tagline – selflessly helping others.
Excellent points at the end there MB! I have to agree with every one of them. We can’t assume, and we should read between the lines.
I hope everyone can take the attitude that if someone helped them, to try and help them much more back in return!
It’s always better to give than receive as the old saying goes. Some do it better than others. Thanks for the tips!
Yakezie is such a supportive and talented community. I’ve learned so much and always get help when I have a question. I like your list and agree that simply saying thanks can go a long way!
I love the Yakezie group. It really is amazing. You made a great list of how to be a good team member that I think we should all measure ourselves against.
I used to assume things. It was difficult to break this habit but now I handle stuff easier because I don’t assume anymore. I ask. :-) Great article.
I continue to be amazed at the generosity of the Yakezie community. I don’t wait for someone to ask for help, if I see that they could benefit from my help I offer it.
Good advice, Money Beagle! I really like this post, and it’s applicability in life beyond the blogging world.
Great bullet points MB. It’s always a good reminder to help others selflessly and truly listen to their needs.
I’m always amazed by the generosity of Yakezians, especially on the forums. Thanks for articulating this so well, MB.
I’ve been so helped by everyone here, from technical help to just a listening ear. I try to help as much as I can as well. So I want to thank my fellow Yakezians! :)
Such good advice! The more you help the more you seem to receive as well!
Great advice! I love the yakezie group. The group has collectively become a mentor for those looking for guidance.
I don’t think I would be a blogger without the help of many Yakezie members. I love the support, generousity and interaction of the network. Your article reminds me not to take it for granted. It is also an opportunity to share, influence and encourage others too.
Hi Money, I really resonated to this article. I’m so appreciative of the generosity of Yakezie members and I work really hard at reciprocating. I love it when folks ask for my help and always try to do what I can. When I’ve asked for help from others, I have never been disappointed!
Good thoughts, MB. I’ve got some ideas percolating, but I know they wouldn’t even be past the embryonic stage if I didn’t know there are Yakezie members with the talent to make it happen.
I think the Yakezie motto is awesome: Selflessly helping others…. such a positive virtual network :)
Thanks for the great feedback! The Yakezie has definitely been a life-changer for me and I’m grateful every day for my participation. Hope everybody is enjoying the holidays!
Good article. I am new to Yakezie network and I have definately found it very helpful. I have so many questions and just by going on the forums it is very easy for me to get my questions answered.
good article MB – agree with you. giving as much as I can has gotten me back as much as I have, much more than what I deserve. I focus on helping with things that I know I am the best at (relatively speaking), and similarly seek out the best when I need help
Good points MB. Reading body language is much more difficult in the forums, and it is easy to take offense. So asking for clarification and being positive is much better.
There have been many times when I have disagreed with others, but realized saying so would not add anything to the discussion. We all should learn to “measure twice and cut once” even in our forum comments
Great points about being a team player. With work and life I kind of fell out of the challenge but have recently re-engaged. Not only is there a ton to catch up on but there has been soo much growth! I want to help be a resource more then ever :)
Great post MB! Agreed with Dr. Dean that forum comments and email can sometimes be interpreted in the wrong way, but we need to take it with a grain of salt and err on the positive side.