Hi. I’m Craig and I’m a husband, father, and the publisher of Free From Broke. Let me tell you a bit about myself and my personal finance blog…
Some years ago I realized that my finances were not anywhere that they needed to be. I was in credit card debt and renting a tiny apartment. At the time I had very little in savings and basically nothing set aside for retirement. I needed to change. I started doing research online. One of the first sites I found was the Motley Fool. At the time they were full of so many great articles that I’d sit there reading one after the other. I was starting to see that I could take control of my finances and slowly I was learning how to do it.
I was also reading what I could. One of the early books I heard about was Rich Dad, Poor Dad. People love and hate Kiyosaki (Rich Dad’s author) but I’ll tell you this – that book opened my eyes to my finances and I realized I needed to think about money differently if ever I was going to achieve any wealth.
I started making changes. I got more serious at work which, in turn, led to promotions. I reigned in my spending so I could at least put something into my savings (I knew I needed an emergency fund). Heck, I got over internet trust issues and opened up an online savings account. Most importantly I started paying more towards my credit card debt. I was slowly learning why, even though I paid every month, my debt kept going up. Well no more! Slowly my credit card debt was going down. And I started contributing to my 401(k) as well. Things were changing, albeit slowly.
Then an interesting thing happened. I lost my apartment! Ughh, it was terrible. What was I going to do? Moving would be expensive and for sure I’d be paying more in rent. All the work I was doing to pay down debt would stop.
What did I do?
It was a tough decision but I sucked up my pride and moved back with my folks after years of being on my own. It was not easy eating that humble pie, let me tell you! But you know what? Living with the ‘rents meant that I wasn’t paying as much in rent and utilities. For the first time in a long time I had extra cash. I mean a lot of extra cash (I was still being real frugal). I quickly put what I could towards my credit card debt and had it paid off in no time. I even upped my 401(k) contributions to above the company match. My savings were growing and I was able to say for the first time in many years that I had a positive net worth!
Fast forward a little bit.
I’m online, jumping from site to site, bored. I found a place called Zen Habits. Whoa, this was good stuff! See I wasn’t just changing my financial lifestyle, I was changing my whole lifestyle and Zen Habits really spoke to me (still does). From there I discovered Get Rich Slowly. Bingo! I was reading through the site like a man in the desert drinks water. I found a bunch of other personal finance blogs after that (like Consumerism Commentary). Actually, that was when I first realized what a blog was. I had heard of them but never really paid attention.
It occurred to me – I’m already doing lots of research into personal finance and I managed to get myself out of a ton of credit card debt. Maybe I could pass along what I’ve learned? That was it, I was starting a blog of my own.
I played with a few names and came up with Free From Broke. Don’t remember if that was the best name but it was the best that was available on Blogspot ( I started on Blogspot then moved to Worpress). I was writing articles. And it was fun. Here I was creating my own site and perhaps even my own small business. It was awesome (and still is by the way). It knocked my socks off that anyone else actually read my articles. Not a lot of people mind you, but still it was exciting that someone wanted to read what I had to say. Oh, by the way, this was in 2007.
So that is the story of how Free From Broke came into being. Kinda brings a tear to your eye doesn’t it?
Nowadays I put a lot more time and effort into the site. See, you could say I’m a problogger. No, I’m not making so much that I can do this full-time (hardly). Fact is, I’m a stay-at-home-dad. My wife and I switched roles about a year ago and she went back to work and I stayed home to watch the kids (we have three ages 10, 3, and 1). Now more than ever, it’s important for us to stay on top of our finances. By being in control of our money, rather than out money controlling us, we’ve been able to make some lifestyle changes that allows me to raise the kids. Now if I said blogging was fun, being home to raise the kids is AWESOME!
It took my wife and I a lot to get where we are now (she had debt as well when I met her). But the work has paid off. Know what? The adventure is just beginning!
Hey, I should talk about Yakezie too!
Months ago (feels like yesterday) I heard about some challenge with Alexa. I heard it involved Financial Samurai, whom I knew of from comments he left on my site, so I went over to check it out. Sounded interesting, all of us working together to selflessly promote each other. I wanted in. The group started blossoming quickly. People’s Alexa ratings were moving up (or rather moving down since a smaller number is better). But best of all I was reading a ton of new sites I didn’t realize were out there! And I was meeting some great people too! See, part of the big fun of blogging, for me, is interacting with people. The Yakezie was becoming this great big social interaction full of energy and information.
And now we’re here with me giving you a long-winded story (if you’ve read this far – Thanks!). I’m really looking forward to seeing what becomes of the Yakezie. There’s so much energy here it really makes you think anything is possible. Thank you all for letting me be a part of this group and getting to know you. If there’s ever anything I can do to help you, either as a blogger or a reader, let me know!
Great story Craig!
You’ve really come a long way from where you started! I like the idea that you had the sense to realize that you were in trouble and needed to rebuild your base. Moving back home or getting roommates can help accomplish such a feat!
Thanks for sharing, your story definitely proves that with focus and hard work, anything is possible!
Let me tell you, a decade ago I don’t think I could have imagined being a homeowner and here we are! Anything is possible if you are willing to make the right sacrifices (like moving back home).
Great post Craig! You were one of the first bloggers who reached out to offer help to a newbie and you hooked me up with Peter Anderson who designed my logo. I’ll always remember that.
Glad I could help out Mike. One of the amazing things about PF bloggers is we all seem ready to help our friends. When I started out (and even now) there were a bunch of sites who were awesome in pointing me in the right direction. I’ll never forget that and alwasy try to pass that energy along.
Craig, love your story. I also know you are a Re-tweeting fool! That is one thing you can do between diaper changes huh!
Thanks for sharing and look forward to getting to know you better!
Haha, yeah. If I had a different phone I might be re-tweeting more (maybe it’s a good thing my phone is a little slow).
Wow! SAHD! Way to go! You have a unique perspective that I’m sure can benefit us all. So great to read your story and get to know you! Looking forward to reading more of you in the future. :)
Thank you! I’m looking forward to learning more about all of you as well. I plan to write a little more about being a stay-at-home-dad.
Hey Craig, I’ve always enjoyed reading your blog and it’s nice to learn a little more about you!
Thanks, it’s alwasy great to hear fro readers!
Hi Craig! Most excellent intro! Didn’t know u were a stay at home dad either. Sounds like a dream with running a blog. I have to fix a subtitle typo but can’t cuz I’m on the bus to work! :)
It’s been good but don’t go thinking it’s easy. I think I work more now with the kids than I did at my old 9-5. And I have to stay up late to get site work done as well. It’s a trade-off but well worth it in our case.
Ha! I had to chuckle catching up on the comments. Everyone thinks “staying home” with the kids is so easy. Until they do it. ;) I nice, peaceful bus ride with no ankle biters vying for you attention probably sounds a little appealing sometimes, eh, Craig? ;)
Sam- *Mwah* Nothing but love for you!
Yeah, whenever anyone says how great it is I offer to let them watch the kids for a day. I’d even do their job. No one has taken me up on it (well, my wife would switch if we could).
Thanks for the detailed intro! You were one of the first bloggers that accepted a guest post from BFS – thanks! Keep on keeping on! :-)
Glad I could help you out!
Hey Craig,
I’m glad that I’ve gotten to read your intro (and all the others) as I’m learning so much about everyone’s non-financial lives. It sounds like your financial story is much like mine, where you knew you needed to get in shape instead of having some huge disaster happen that forced you to open your eyes. The lessons you learn as you skirt disaster become more important than the ones you learn in the disasters. Lets face it, avoiding a problem is always easier than solving one.
Well, I guess I didn’t have a huge disaster but there will lots of little things that woke me up, showing me I needed to change my lifestyle.
Craig, may I ask what was the event that caused you to lose you apartment? It is honorable and very encouraging to hear your story.
Seems the apt. wasn’t exactly on the up and up and the city found out about it. Left me without a place and taught me a valuable lesson.
Cool. So not b/c you suddenly lost all your money playing penny stocks and couldn’t afford the rent! I love interesting situational apartments in NYC.. living in the kitchen and such. Gotta do what ya gotta do!
No living in the kitchen. It was more like a basement studio apartment.
Well I found it interesting, not long winded at all! Stay at home dad’s rock :)…… Kids get ice cream all day long ha ha!
Seriously I am glad you get the time to blog as much as you do because I am glad I found your blog.
Kids get ice cream? When do I get the ice cream?!? Haha, thanks.
Great Story, Craig! I can only hope to be a stay home dad with your situation.
Thanks Evan. I you want to be a stay-at-home-dad then you will find a way to make it happen!
Nice story. It’s always great to be able to do what you love, and even get some money for doing it! I think that now with the official site, our momentum is going to keep building into the second challenge. It’s going to be great!
Thanks! Yes, I think with all of us working together we can see some massive momentum!
Great post! You have a really good story, and it’s great to read about how you had made some very good decisions to improve your finances.
Also, very cool that you’re focusing so much on your kids. That’s great. While I’m not staying home, I absolutely relish every single minute being a Dad. Kids are the greatest.
I’ll be sure to spend more time visiting your blog.
Hope to see you around more! Yes, being able to watch the kids grow up in from of my eyes is awesome.
Great Story Craig! Didn’t know you are a SAHD! You have come a long way from where you have started and instead of making it sound long, your writing make it sound interesting and inspiring! Thanks for sharing! Looking forward to working with you in the future and reading more of your works!
Looking forward to working with you as well Suba.
Hey, Craig! Thanks for sharing your story. I’ve read your site for some time but I’m not sure if I’ve ever commented there. I was just wondering what made you and your wife decide to have you stay at home?
Thank you for reading it Paul! I’ll write about our decision soon but basically my wife made more than me and we didn’t want my paycheck basically going to daycare when I could do it myself. There were some quality of life benefits as well.
Craig, yours is one of the first blogs I ever read, but I didn’t realize you weren’t always on top of your finances like you are :) it’s cool to read of the beginning and your troubles that you overcame. I’m pretty excited to see what comes of this group, and glad you are a part of it. With so much talent under one name, there is nothing this group can’t achieve!
I’m honored to hear you say that Jesse! I’m glad you’ve stuck around. Can’t wait to see us all grow and expand.
Your story sounds very similar to mine, Craig. And we seem to have had similar ideas when naming our blogs!
I don’t get it, there’s no Beating in my site’s name? ;)
I remember finding Get Rich Slowly and a few other blogs and going through the archives like it was my job. I couldn’t get enough at first and spent what felt like all my time those first few months doing research and reading anything I could get my hands on. Thanks for the intro!
Yes, it was real cool when I first discovered personal finance blogs to read all of this new material and authors.
Great intro. I love these member posts, now I feel like I know you (lol). Your site was one of the first that I came across, and I’m glad that we are now in the same network!
Wow, it’s so awesome to hear that people actually read my stuff. Whoda thunk it?!? Really thanks for the support.
Always a reader of Free From Broke. I am just getting into the swing of things with this new Yakezieeeee movement but I am loving it. It is really bringing a ton of diff people together which is great.
Thanks for reading Doc! I’m loving the vibe here too.
I love reading these stories! Congratulations to you for not only getting out of debt, but managing your finances so well that you are able to stay home with the kids.
I really enjoy your site, and I am glad you have kept on blogging!
Thank you. I can only take so much credit though. We’re out of our credit card debt but we just took on a ton of mortgage debt. Still, I think it’s a better debt and is more positive for us than credit card debt.
Hmmm… I wondering if this is a spam comment, or a real comment. Care to reply?
If it’s off topic, then it’s spam.
Mike
Leads to a semi-valid website, but is pretty off topic. Feels more like a drive-by for the link and traffic than a true spam, but pretty darn close anyways.
I went ahead and edited the comment to remove the link. Thanks for keeping an eye on this everyone.
My vote would be spam. :)
Great introduction Craig. I can vouch to everyone that Craig is a good guy to work with in the blogging world. I am honored to be a part of the same group.
Thank you so much. The honor is mine.
Awesome story/introduction, Craig! Looking forward to getting to know you better and checking out your posts.
Looking forward to knowing you too.
I love how blogging becomes an extension of peoples struggles and victories of their own personal finances. Great job Craig – it’s definitely cool getting to know you guys on a deeper level.
Absolutely! It’s a great place to let others know what works and what doesn’t.
Thanks for sharing your story! It’s always interesting to see how people decide they are interested in becoming bloggers. Wanting to share experiences and gained knowledge naturally leads to writing, and blogs make it so easy to be heard.
It also makes me accountable to my spending habits!
Great story Craig. I’m always interested in hearing about couples with kids where the stay at home parent is the dad. I only know one couple personally that does this so it’s nice to hear it works out well for you too. It’s always nice to hear about people doing things outside the box and having success.
It’s not too common but I do know a couple of other dads that do it. I think this economy has changed the way people think about how we structure our families.
Excellent post Craig! I think it’s great that you are a stay at home Dad. I stay at home with our kids (4 of them!) so I know all about the “stay at home” life. It was much easier when I worked full time – but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. I have never once regretted my decision to stay home with the kids.
I wouldn’t trade it either!
Craig, I’ve had a stay at home dad/husband for many, many years and it’s been great for our family. My husband was able to coach the kids in sports, go on field trips and all those things we’d have missed out on if both of us worked. It was great learning this and the rest of your story.
I’m looking forward to being that involved with the kids (only the oldest is in school now). Thanks for reading!
Craig, thanks for sharing your background and how Free From Broke came to be. You have a lot of experience turning your finances around. Keep sharing your story. It’s encouraging and I know it will help a lot of people who are having a hard time getting out of financial bondage right now.
I think we all forget that there are other people out there in financial distress. Talking about it helps others realize it’s not all bad and you CAN do something about it.
I’ve been a FFB follower for a long time and it’s great to learn more about one of my Hero’s :-) Keep up the super duper work and I appreciate the help you’ve given all the “new” blogger in the crew.
Dude, you’re makin’ me blush!
Oh man – wow. That’s crazy how things can start to seem “on track” and then life throws a curveball. But, like you add – looks like it was a time to realign yourself and it set you up well for the future.
You know, you make the best of what’s offered and sometimes you get to open your eyes to what’s going on aorund you and you have an opportunity to make your life better. Mistakes are only truly bad if we don’t learn from them.
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I love these member posts and reading how bloggers got started! You’ve been blogging for as long as I have been, the years sure do fly by. Thanks for sharing your story with us!
Know what’s crazy? If I had half the amount of comments on this article in my first month blogging I would have been in heaven! Time does fly by fast.
I think the stay-at-home-dad thing is really cool. Hmm, I wonder if I could get the Honeybee to agree to that? Hold on, lemme check…
Nope.
Great write-up!
Best,
Len
Len Penzo dot Com
Well, at least you tried Len!
Craig, this is an inspirational story and I’m glad you told it here. I am subscribing to read some of your latest posts. I look forward to following you closer.
Look forward to seeing you on my site and interacting with you here.
Craig, it’s crazy how much you’ve been through and I think moving back in with the fam was ultimately a great idea, even though it must have felt like a major loss of independence. Now you’re on your feet and giving us advice! Totally agree on how awesome the community is and how fun it’s been to learn about all these new blogs and meet so many people on a different level.
Moving back with the ‘rents was a huge ego blow but ultimately it allowed for more independence later on.
That’s a neat way of looking at it. Sacrificing independence in the short term for more independence in the long run!