I love how here on Yakezie we all come together for our love and interest in blogging, personal finance, lifestyle topics, and helping each other. I wouldn’t be where I am today as a blogger without Yakezie and the support of so many Members and Challengers. I knew so little about websites and blogging before I started the Challenge! Looking back I have to laugh at some of the things I used to get so confused about, for ex. what’s the difference between a plugin vs a widget? and what the heck is RSS? And I know a lot of you have had similar experiences.
I didn’t even know what WordPress was until a few years ago. The only thing I did know was some basic html that I learned many years ago when I was playing around trying to make a website on Yahoo Geocities. (Remember Geocities?!) Ha that was so long ago it sounds like the Stone Ages. Well I totally failed at my first attempts to get on the web, which turned out to be fine, and it’s exciting to see how far technology, web platforms, and online sharing has come since then.
You Will Be A Happy Blogger If…
There are many things I’ve learned from blogging since I started Untemplater. Some I learned from others, some I learned by research, and a few I learned by accident. If I had to pick only one piece of advice to share from them all, it would be to blog because you love to write. You’d be surprised how many people run sites and call themselves bloggers but actually don’t enjoy what they do and dread having to write.
As an observer, I’ve seen more and more people start or takeover a blog primarily because of money and not for the love of it. I’m not saying it’s bad to earn income from blogging, I think that’s a sweet bonus. But having too big a focus on money alone tends to squeeze all the life and personality out of a site. As a blog owner, if you don’t truly love writing for your own readers, the truth will eventually come out.
Blog Because You Love It!
It’s very hard to maintain a regular posting schedule long term if you don’t actually enjoy writing for your site. I was shocked when I met a fairly big blogger a few years ago who I used to look up to because he said to me “I hate writing.” Wow, how sad. At the time his blog didn’t indicate that he hated writing.
But it’s hard to do anything you “hate” long term. So I’m not surprised to find out that he stopped writing for his blog all together and it has since gone downhill. The core of his site used to be about his own life and career experiences, but that is all lost since he only publishes articles by staff writers and guests now. So many people give up!
That’s why you have to genuinely love blogging if you want to stick with it long term. Your site may be able to survive if you stop writing and hire other people to write all your content instead, but you shouldn’t call yourself a blogger if you’re not actually writing. You’d be a content manager, editor, or just a website owner at that point. Perhaps you have a different definition of a blogger, but to me a blogger is someone who writes their own stuff! And a happy blogger is someone who loves to write.
Time Flies When You’re Smiling
Blogging will feel like long drawn out torture and stress if you don’t like to write, pure and simple. If on the other hand, you like being able to sit down and pour out your emotions, thoughts, and advice on the computer, you’re going to do very well as a blogger. Haven’t you noticed time flies when you’re smiling?! Even if you’re not a natural and are a slow writer like me, you’ll be able to grow and improve in time if you enjoy the act of writing itself. I love being on a computer and I love to write, so blogging has been the perfect medium for me to do both.
Whether or not you like the technical aspects of blogging is less important to being a happy blogger because the techie stuff is minor compared to the frequency, focus, and energy it takes to write for your site. A blog is about producing posts after all! Even if you start to burn out or get distracted with other work or personal issues, a love of blogging will always bring you back. If on the other hand you start to realize that you really dislike sitting down to write, you should start to question if blogging is really for you. For me, I’m so happy every time I finish writing a post and am constantly thinking of new things I can write about.
I’m also a happy blogger because Untemplater helps me keep track of how far I’ve come. I’ve been able to use my own experiences, struggles, and growth to get things off my shoulders, remember what I’ve overcome, and help people grow and find ways to enrich their lives. A few of my posts that stick out in my mind are
- Getting the guts to ask for a raise
- Finally overcoming getting rejected for a promotion and landing the job I wanted
- Sharing a bunch of fun adventure vacation ideas from my own trips
- Getting my scuba diving certification and encouraging people to try new things
- Overcoming a crazy TV addiction
- Getting totally cured from incredible back, neck, and shoulder pain
- And realizing you don’t have to be famous to be a rockstar
It’s just so much fun to look back at all the stuff I’ve written about. I’m sure you feel the same way about your own blog. It’s a priceless feeling to be proud of something you’ve accomplished on your own. I feel so grateful that I’ve been able to write about so many experiences and share with other people these last three+ years. As long as I can help even just one person out there through my writing, I plan to keep writing for as long as I can.
So Many Bloggers Give Up
Remember there are many other ways to express yourself and work towards earning some side income than just being a blogger. So don’t feel bad if you discover that blogging just isn’t your thing. But you may be like me and start off feeling hesitant and end up loving to blog way more than you ever imagined! Life is short, so it’s important to spend as much of your time doing things you truly enjoy. Do what makes you happy.
For me, I find writing to be so many wonderful things – an emotional outlet, a way to keep myself challenged, a method for me to help other people, a means to learn new things, a way to connect and build friendships, etc. – which is why I’m a happy blogger. I also think it’s why I’ve lasted as long as I have. The failure rate for bloggers is pretty high, which you’ll realize more and more the longer you do it.
For example, I ran the Broken Link Checker plugin the other day and quickly lost count of how many bloggers had given up when I was cleaning up broken links from comments they’d left on my older posts. It’s easy to become a blogger, but it takes a lot of diligence, time, and enthusiasm for writing to keep up with it long term.
The Pure Joy Of Reaching Goals And Milestones
A funny thing happened to me recently that just goes to show how fast time flies when you’re smiling and having fun. I was sitting at home while I was surfing Yakezie and randomly had the idea to pull up my Member post. I laughed at how green I was when I wrote it, and skimmed down to the bottom of the post. Then curiosity led me to look at the date of the first comment, which was in the early Fall of 2011.
Wait a minute. Counting backwards, since this was my Member post that means I started blogging at the beginning of 2011. Then counting forwards, 2012, 2013, 2014 – holy cow that means I passed my 3 year blogversary! Ha no way!
I didn’t realize until that moment just a few weeks ago that I’d passed my three year blogging mark. And I found out by accident! Well unless my subconscious was smart enough to guide me to piece it together. I remember celebrating becoming a Yakezie Member way back then and then reaching my 1 year blogversary. I was having so much fun I lost track of time after that. So I was so thrilled when it registered in my brain that I blew right past year 2 and now 3. I sure didn’t think I’d make it this far when I first started.
It’s such a joy to reach goals and milestones, and we should celebrate more of them. After all, why work hard if we don’t give ourselves a pat on the back and do something fun to reward ourselves once in a while! :)
Thank You Yakezie!
I want to take a moment to thank Sam and everyone involved with Yakezie, because my experience as a blogger wouldn’t be the same without you guys. Thank you! The Challenge is such a great way to start out and learn, the belts of honor system is so unique (I recently achieved Black Belt!), the forums are incredibly helpful and fun, and the support of the Network is priceless.
People and opportunities may come and go, but we should never forget those who have helped us along the way. I hope you are a happy blogger and that you love to write. To me having a love of writing is the most important reason to be a blogger!
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At this stage of my blogging career, I’d put myself at an 7 for love of writing. The only thing that holds me back from that being higher is the lack of time I have to write and the speed at which I put posts together. It takes me some time to write a decent post, something that I’m sure will improve the more I write. All my blog frustrations lie in the technical side of running a website, gaining traffic, building my brand, etc., as all that is very new to me. Even so, I love being able to blog and connect with others and foresee it continuing for some time.
A 7 is good! It takes me a while to write decent posts too. I try to write one post in 2 hours, but it often ends up taking 3-4. I spend less time editing now though than when I first started, which helps with time. I used to spend closer towards 6-8 hours on each post because I couldn’t focus and over obsessed with trying to get my wording right.
And don’t worry, the technical stuff gets easier!
Congrats on 3 years!
I’m with you – if I didn’t enjoy writing for 5 years to make minimum wage in my fifth year, I would have quit a long time ago. Glad you’re still around!
Thanks PK! Wow great job writing for 5 years!
I remember running the broken link checker a year ago and being surprised by how many people disappeared. But, I think disappearing is rational since blogging takes work, and who wants to do that??
I’d rather kick back and have money and relationships just come my way :)
The good thing is that better writers will tend to make it. And that’s good for all readers.
Congrats on 3 years!
Thanks! Yeah it is work, but it’s fun work for those of us who enjoy writing!
I hope never to be a broken link!
I agree with Sydney – love of writing is key. If you possess that love, then everything should fall into place naturally. Here’s to your next 3 years, Sydney. May they fly by just as fast and bring even greater successes.
I hope never to be a broken link either! Thanks for the good wishes. I have a feeling three more years will definitely speed on by!
Congrats, Sydney!
We are both big fans of yours and love hearing about everyone’s stories. As blogging newbies, we’ve had a great time getting to know everybody and being part of a great community like Yakezie. We’ve learned so much since we started early this year! What has been most impactful for us to understand is that blogging is a marathon – not a sprint. As long as we’re having fun – smiling, if you will – we are going to be OK. It’s been such a fun journey so far!! We hope to celebrate our 3 years just like you, Sydney – thank you for the inspiration!
Thanks guys! I have no doubt you’ll make it to your three year mark too. :) Marathon not a sprint is so true!
” It’s such a joy to reach goals and milestones, and we should celebrate more of them. After all, why work hard if we don’t give ourselves a pat on the back and do something fun to reward ourselves once in a while! :) ”
I really agree with this. Achieving goals and getting to celebrate those small wins on a regular basis is one of my favourite things about blogging and maintaining a website. Setting yourself a challenge and then completing it is one of the best feelings you can have in my opinion.
Here’s to another three years!! :)
It really is such a wonderful feeling! Celebrating the little wins keeps us motivated to keep working towards the big wins.
I think we see this the same way, Sydney! I enjoy writing, which is why I do it. It’s fun to write for many reasons, including helping others and learning via capturing your own thoughts. The intrinsic motivation involved with blogging is what got me started and keeps me going 4 years later!
Yes, writing is wonderful! It’s such a rewarding way to connect with others and also work through and log our own issues and milestones.
I know this may sound kind of weird but I had not realized that my blogging was actually “writing”. I tend to just have an idea for a post and sit down and type it out almost as if I’m just talking to someone about a topic. Thinking about it now and realizing it is writing I can honestly say I love it. I really enjoy sitting down to make a post. Apparently my writing has gotten better because I no longer need my other half to proof read my posts before I publish them anymore! :)
That’s great you like it! I didn’t think that my writing would improve over time, but I think it has some. And I’m sure yours will too. That’s a good sign that you don’t need an extra proof reader anymore. :)
My experience has been that it is important to blog because you want to blog, not because you feel that you are bound to something. Doing something because you feel you have to makes it a chore, and blogging is supposed to be a creative outlet.
I find myself thinking that I should blog more often or post more often; stick to a posting schedule, for instance. I have to remind myself that blogging was meant to be a hobby, not a must-do.
I like your comment on blogging being a creative outlet – that it most certainly is!
Very good article, Sydney. I am a writer and I love to write (within all that goes with this like the occasional bout of restless frustration etc.). It seems to me that to be a happy blogger there is abalance to be observed between loving to write and being a blogger – these are different skill sets. I’m a much happier writer since I’ve become a blogger as well.
Well done on the three years; it seems we started at roughly the same time:).
Thanks Maria! I’m glad to hear you love to write. It’s nice to have an outlet to publish our writing. I used to write a lot of journal entries when I was younger but they’re all lost (which is actually a good thing lol). It’s nice that with blogging, our writing is stored online for as long as we can maintain our sites.
If someone had told me back in high school that I would be regularly writing for fun I would have laughed in their face (yes, I probably was a jerk back then). For me I enjoy writing about things that interest me but I seem to be having a difficult time with the whole social media aspect of things. With my blog I’ve focused on the part that I thought was the most important, writing. I guess I skipped the whole part of social media because in my personal life I don’t even have a twitter account and I am not particularly fond of facebook either. I realize the importance of social media so I’m making an effort at it but that’s the whole side of blogging that, at least for now, I don’t particularly like.
Like Brian mentioned above, time is also an issue for me. Every now and then I can pump out an article in a few hours an even surprise myself at how it turned out. Other times I find a topic that I’m extremely interested in and I’ll spend a ton of time researching to finish. I have a post that I’m working on now that I’ve probably put in a good 30 hours (hopefully I’ll be done by next week…). But I realize that I probably can’t spend that much time on each post. But on the flip side of that, the articles that I invest so much in are the ones that I feel more pride for.
I never would have thought I’d be writing for fun regularly either! I totally empathize with you on the social media stuff. I am terrrrible at it. It’s one of the first things I gave up when I had to figure out what to prioritize. But I am thinking about trying to write shorter posts to free up a little more time to start using social media more regularly. So we’ll see what happens.
I totally know what you mean too about how research type posts takes FOR-EV-ER! I try not to write too many of those because they totally kill my productivity. It does feel awesome when they are finally done though and we learn a lot in the process. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
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Congratulations on your 3-year blogiversary! I really enjoyed your post, and I think it will speak to those of us who have been blogging for several years. ” It’s easy to become a blogger, but it takes a lot of diligence, time, and enthusiasm for writing to keep up with it long term.” So true! Your commitment has clearly paid off, and here’s to your continued success in the coming years.
Thanks so much! It’ll be fun to see what I’m thinking another three years from now when I look back on where I’ve gone from here. :)
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