One of my favorite authors, Ralph Waldo Emerson, has the wisdom to cure most problems in our world — Common sense is as rare as genius, – is the basis of genius.
I am not a genius, but I have lots of common sense. When I decided to launch a personal finance blog, I didn’t think much about the name.
Many a times when I reflect on my life, I realize that a common man can achieve uncommon things if he wants it badly.
I grew up in a relatively well to-do family in India. My father owned a small car dealership in days when India was under USSR’s communist influence.
I had polio at the tender age of 3, but I was lucky to overcome that in few years.
I thought that I won’t be able to play Cricket — my favorite sport! It was my mother who used to tell me that I can do anything, if I want it badly enough. She was right. I wasn’t one of the best, but I did earn a place in the team during my high school years and even in college.
My mom has always been my role model.
My tipping point
I earned a degree in Mechanical Engineering with the goal to work for my dad, but the destiny had a different plan for me.
One day I met with a guy who was born with physical disability; he had the dream and courage to become a wrestler. He spoke at length about his dream. That one conversation changed my life. I started focusing more on the positive experience from everything that I do than on the negative outcome to judge my success.
I have learned to adjust the sails when wind blows hard and not to complain about the wind that I can’t control; life has given me new meaning ever since.
Instead of running my dad’s business, I decided to chart a different course by coming to America to build my success. Being the only son, I lacked the courage to declare my bold plan to my parents. My father was not happy, but he realized that the time had come for him to let me fly with my own wings and to build my own nest of success as he did on his own long time ago.
With $20 in my pocket, I came to America. It’s the last beacon of hope for the world. I remember watching the Statue of Liberty first time. I instantly felt that I was in the land of Patrick Henry who famously said, ““Give me Liberty, or Give me Death”.
Unconventional Life
I’ve never lived a conventional life. My attitude to defy stereotypical views about life has propelled me to think outside of the box. I’ve managed to work all the while completing many multi-million dollars commercial real estate deals.
It’s not that I am any smarter than anyone else, but it is because I wanted it badly. My wife and I’ve worked more than 18 hours a day for over 5 years without any vacations or time off after our first investment.
My blogging journey
Back in early 2008, I launched a personal growth blog without knowing anyone. In less than six months, many prominent bloggers recognized my blog because of my style of writing unconventional posts. Many articles hit the front page of Digg, so some friends even speculated that I had figured out how to get on the front page of Digg.
I have committed many unforced errors in my life. My decision to stop writing in late 2008 was one among many other mistakes I’ve made in my life. I didn’t know much about Google’s Page Rank or Alexa traffic rank back then for sure.
I was never able squash the writer’s bug from my life. After the aftermath of the worst financial crisis, I received an email from a close friend from Scotland. His words inspired me to write, and I did not let him down this time.
I launched Street Smart Finance in January 2012.
As I surfed through the blogosphere, Yakezie name flickered on many sites I liked. As destiny has it, I declared my intention on February 5th to accept the challenge.
After 7 months, I learned that the great group of bloggers has considered me worthy enough to become a Yakezie member. It’s an honor to be a member of such a diverse group of bloggers who wanted to write, share and help millions around our beautiful globe to achieve their financial dreams.
This just goes to show the American dream is still alive. You are putting in the hard work and reaping the rewards today. Congrats!
Lance, you are correct. I remember vividly that when I was doing my first hotel deal, I was driving a cheap car that I had purchased from auction to save money for my first business. I was so afraid that if the owner or commercial broker knows what kind of car I am driving, I may lose the deal. So, I used to park it a mile away from the meeting place and used to walk to the meeting place. It’s sound crazy, but when you believe in your dream, it’s amazing how your subconscious mind makes you find ways to reach your goal. Thank you for the kind words.
So great to hear your story and I think your background gives you an exceptional perspective that many people that were born in this country do not have. Thanks for sharing your story and welcome to Yakezie! It’s been awesome to get to know you over the past 6 months!
Jason, it’s an honor to know you and many other blogger friends who are selflessly helping me. I really am enjoying my blogging journey.
Lovely story, and a great reminder that you really can achieve amazing things if you put your mind to it.
Absolutely. In my early years, I felt inferior as I lost three vital years due to polio. But, my mom always believed in me. She inspired me to make up for my weakness and more. I am fortunate to have loving mom and dad. But, my story proves that no peaks are high to climb if you first climb them in your mind.
Great story and I’m glad you didn’t give up writing! Welcome to the network!
Yakezie makes it fund to write and share with an amazing group of friends. Thanks for the kind words.
*fun not fund :)
I love your site! Congrats on being inducted, and look forward to many more great articles from you. You are right that you have an unconventional style in an amazingly-good way. Keep it up :)
Jake, I think your blog is destined to reach new highs due to your selfless attitude. Way to go, my friend.
Great story (I love hearing all of these). It certainly takes the “writers bug” to keep going in the world of blogging. I think many of us blog, because we love writing and it is something that we value and find pleasure in. I know this is true for me, and it seems to be true for many Yakezie members and challengers. Best of luck, Jason
Agreed. Like anything else in life, you should blog not to make extra few bucks; you should blog because blogging is your passion.
Running a business in a communist-influenced country must have taken a lot of savvy and courage.
Agreed. It’s very difficult to do business in that environment. India is a shiny proof of the fruits of capitalism. When I grew up, India was mainly a socialist country. Young people in India have no clue as to how difficult it was to find a job, much less to start a business. Believe me, it’s not a fun life to live in a socialist rule.
Great story and congratulations! Common sense is important, but the most determined usually wins.
Thank you, KC! I am a big admirer of your blog and accomplishments.
Don’t tell anyone else, but you’re one of my favorites, Shilpan! I love your stories. I’d love to just sit and have coffee with you some time and hear your amazing story about how you came to the land or dreams and made yours come true. You are always so inspirational. Great job sticking with the challenge.
Thanks Michelle! I am both humbled and honored. I feel blessed to become a member of Yakezie and having so many friends on the blogosphere.
Wow! What a great story. I’m glad you decided to get into writing again. I think common sense and being practical were the two keys I was missing for a long time. Since I found them though, my path has become a lot clearer. And I love the 18 hour days! So much commitment. I was just feeling tired because I had a long day at work but now I know I still have at least another 6 hours of work in me :)
I believe that there is no substitute for common sense and hard work. I also believe that if you develop those two virtues, you can achieve anything in life.
Shilpan, I loved your story and I agree with you (and your mum) – people can achieve extraordinary things when they want them enough. Thanks for sharing. As to writing and blogging – yes, it is a bug and the cure you have found is pretty good. Keep going!
Thank you for the kind words, Maria!
Thanks for that story. It shows that you’ve overcome a lot and have always had your eye on success and have not been afraid to go get it.
Yes, I’ve dealt with many setbacks in life, starting with having polio at an early age to losing my brother. I’ve done all kinds of jobs in America while attending graduate engineering college. But, in the end, it’s worth it. I am a firm believer in hard work.
Shilpan, My personal blogging contact with you continues to be a source of inspiration. As this article demonstrates, you are a remarkable individual and an inspiration to all. Your guest post on my site is one of my favorites. You are so smart with a unique take on money matters.
Barbara, I have lots of admiration for you too! I really enjoy your financial wisdom. Thanks for the opportunity to guest post on your awesome blog; and thanks for the kind words as well.
Hey Shilpan,
It’s so great to see you become part of the group! Those must have been really interesting times when you came to the US the first time? What were the early days like? How did you come over here? And, do you think that it’s still the same land of opportunity? Canada isn’t so bad, either ;)
Hi Kevin, I came here in early 1990. When I finished my M.S. in Mechanical/Manufacturing engineering, it was tough to find a job in early 1992. In fact, I can write an entire post on how I found my first job.
I think America is still the beacon of hope for the rest of the world. Our freedom is sacred. This is why I get emotional when it comes to personal freedom and government involvement in our lives.
As my favorite President Reagan used to say, “Government is not the solution; government is the problem.”
I feel that American is not what it used to be in early to mid 1900’s for sure. But you can still live a wonderful life in America, if you are willing to work hard for it. I have no doubt about that.
I came to America on a student visa after finishing my B.S. in Mechanical Engineering.
I believe Canada has also become more capitalist in past 20 years.
You remind us Shilpan how much we routinely take for granted. Thanks for the time and effort you put into your blog, though I think it’s the heart you put into it that makes it special well worth reading.
Thank you, my friend. I think our thoughts resonate well on most finance and personal growth related viewpoints.
Thanks for sharing your story and reminding us what is important! Welcome to the Yakezie!
Thank you for the kind words! I think blogging is a noble passion, and Yakezie is the common thread for all of us to get inspired by each other to help make our world a better place to live.
Shilpan,
I love your story and your desire to strike it out on your own! It is exactly because we want things bad enough that we will do anything we can to make it happen!
Grades, smarts, all that stuff during college and before pretty much don’t matter after a while if we have that hunger.
BTW, youll have to point me to the direction of cricket game rules, b/c I still don’t have a grasp!
Welcome aboard!
Sam
We all owe you to build such an amazing network of wonderful bloggers, Sam!
Besides making money, most of us don’t realize that we are developing virtues that are important to succeed in life by being a part of the network such as Yakeizie.
When you help others, when you share your ideas freely, when you build a community of friends who are giving selfless advice to millions seeking financial and spiritual balance, you are enriching our world. It’s a beautiful cause to live for. Thank you all for your inspiration and encouragement.
I’ve witnessed that when you put your heart and soul into something, miracle happens.
You put yourself into achieving your goals and were willing to work hard to make them h happen. This old-fashioned approach is a timeless method to being successful but people always try to take a short cut. Way to go for doing it and overcoming obstacles along the way.
What an inspiring story Shilpan! I can’t imagine how much courage it took to leave your family and come to America on your own. It’s incredible how far you’ve come all on your own. Congrats on becoming a Member!
Thank you, Sydney! I am honored to be part of this great community of bloggers.
Very cool story. Congrats on becoming a member-
Thank you. I am a secret admirer of your blog. I like your humor in otherwise boring subject of finance.