Wow, is everyone else as surprised as I am? I mean, I went through the secret handshake and everything, but I didn’t think they’d actually let me join the club!*Steps through the door…* So…am I…am I actually allowed in here? Like, I’m in? Can I eat the crackers and salmon dip too? Sweet! …… *pockets a few of the crackers for later…..and some dip…*
About Me
My name is Jacob Wade, and I blog over at a small site called i Heart Budgets. I found my way here through some fun challenges in my life, namely being struck with absolute panic a month before my wedding, realizing that I had no idea what I was doing with my money. For those that don’t know the story (about 99.99999999% of you), I was blissfully ignorant about my finances for years, and had never met a dollar couldn’t spend. In fact, I spent over $100,000 of them before I turned 21!
As my wedding day approached me like a freight train, I realized I needed to do something. But mostly I just spent half my paycheck on mall food and kept ignoring the impending 500 tons of mass barreling toward me (I mean the financial mess I was about to create….not my wife….she’s a small percentage of a ton…anyways….wow….I’m going to have another thing coming if she finds out I’m talking about her weight on the internet). Luckily, my soon-to-be-brother-in-law dropped a Dave Ramsey CD in my lap and told me to listen to him. Staring at his smiling face and bald head, I could not be more unenthused about listening to an old guy talk about budgeting. LAAAAME! But something about him staring at me from my passenger side floor creeped me out enough to have me pop in the CD. Glad I did.
The rest of the story you can find on my “About” page, by needless to say, I got on a sweet-tastic budget and never looked back!
But why do you blog?
After rockin’ our budget for a few years, I found myself steering every conversation with friends and family toward personal finance. I didn’t mean to, but I realized that money (whether we like it or not) affected most every part of our lives, and many struggled to keep hold of those precious few dollars they worked so hard to earn. So I would tell them budget hacks, ways we were saving money, and encourage them to get on a budget so they could enjoy life more AND save more at the same time. I’m sure it got to the point where I was annoying those around me, but I couldn’t shut up about budgets!
A tax client of mine mentioned a blog called “Get Rich Slowly” to me. Not sure if you have heard of it. I started reading the articles and was infatuated (is that the right word?) with the awesome posts and very engaged community surrounding the site. The hamsters in my brain put down the xbox controllers, got off the couch and jumped on their wheels, and some crazy thoughts started churning in my head. “Hey, dude, you could totally start a blog and instead of spewing your financial monologues to friends and family, you could do it at the internet. Right in it’s face.”
So I started perusing the interwebz for more personal finance blogz (see what I did there?). I found that a bunch of them had a spiffy “Yakezie” badge on the side, and I eventually clicked through to see what all the hype was about. I was super pumped to have found a community that was so vibrant and passionate about helping others financially. I went a little crazy in the forums, answering every personal finance question that came up in the PF section, and then I started reading about how to start a blog.
And now I’m here.
What Now?
When I received the email from Sam that I had been accepted in as a Yakezie Member, I felt a huge sense of accomplishment, but also gratitude for the community that I had become a part of. As cliché as it is, there is seriously no way I would have kept blogging after my first few weeks had I not had a support, extremely helpful community to lean on.
The more I write, the more I realize there are a million things to learn, but also more opportunities than I ever dreamed about. My blog has become a place that family and friends refer others to who have budget questions, which is awesome. I started a series where I post the personal details of people’s budgets, line-by-line and help them get on a better financial path. I have been able to help people I will probably never know in person get out of credit card debt, tackle retirement planning, and realize the financial freedom of getting on a budget.
Being a member of Yakezie is not only a look back at what I have been able to accomplish, but has me looking forward to all of the opportunities ahead. I’m excited to have been accepted into a community of those who know no bounds, but who are always striving to build each other up, all the while helping as many people as possible. Well, that, and I also hear they know how to party!
*Reaches in pocket for another cracker. Dips in salmon dip in the other pocket* So, I guess my question is, why are YOU here? And why are you still reading this? There’s no line at the buffet, and the salmon dip is AMAZING!
Congrats on becoming a member Jake! It’s neat how we can go from not having a care in the world about PF and then end up not being able to get enough of it. I love tracking my own budget in a rolling spreadsheet. I have a fun time looking back at how much I was making and saving 6, 12, 36+ months back and setting new goals.
Thanks! And you’re totally right. Tell me 5 years ago I would be writing about budgeting week in and week out, I’d have slapped you with a wad of $100’s I was about to go blow on video games. My, how the times have changed…
Definitely like seeing the backstory. I am not here for salmon dip though… not a fish fan! Glad we got to join in the same class!
No fish?! Fine, fine. How about some artichoke dip? MMMMmmm….now I’m hungry….brb.
Oh man, my sides hurt from laughing. Thanks for keying me guest post on your site a few weeks ago, and welcome to the club!
Thanks Edward, I’m pretty pumped to be here. :)
Welcome Jake! I’ve never seen someone who loves budgets as much as you, but that’s a really good thing! I love your site, especially when you break down people’s budget.
I’ve got a few lined up, so be on the lookout! And thanks for the support, Robert! :)
DANG! I KNEW there was a secret handshake! :) I love your site, and your advice, even though I don’t understand your strange love for budgets.
Kathleen, you should come join the dark side. I mean, all you can eat spreadsheets and historical spending trends from 5 years ago, WHO DOESN’T WANT SOME OF THAT?! Thanks for enjoying my site :)
Congrats Jake, well deserved. Best of luck for more success!
Thanks Kurt!
Congrats Jake! I really enjoy your blog, hopefully ill be doing th secret handshake with you soon.
Hey Jacob!
Congrats on making it through the “guantlet” which really wasn’t so bad, was it? It’s all about perseverance. Your story on blowing through $100,000 by 21 is one of the best stories around. Glad you got a sweet ride and your wife out of it!
I really like your attitude on life and finances. It’s very encouraging and so positive. Are you going to Fincon? If so, I hope to meet up!
Best,
Sam
PS, there is a secret handshake.
Congrats Jake! This community really is amazing, and I think it’s because of how strongly the Yakezie Challenge promotes that.
Thanks Johnny. Sweet shades, BTW :)
Thanks Sam, thanks for the encouragement. It wasn’t THAT bad, though I was doubting my efforts a few weeks in. But once the community starting flooding my inbox and comments section, I knew I could do it.
I hope to go to FinCon, but because of LIFE, I haven’t been able to commit yet. Once the craziness of tax season clears, I should be able to sit down and plan it out. I do really hope to go, and if I do, I’ll definitely see you there :)
Yea Jake! You did it! You know we love your site. Congrats!
W00t W00t! Thanks ya’ll. Love you guys too!
Congratulations Jake! It’s a tremendous accomplishment. Keep up the good work.
Thanks MFIJ. Can I call you MFIJ? Cool.
Congratulations and welcome.
Thanks! :)
Yikes, Glad you are turning the money corner. Life would be much less fun if spending continued in a stratospheric pace. Welcome!
Tha Barbara.I’m glad I didn’tget further into debt, could have been REALLY bad!
Hi Jacob and welcome; read the story with interest – funny this, it sound a bit like me. Four years ago, I didn’t even know how much I earn; today…well a different story entirely. Well done on both Bs (the budget and the blog).
Thanks Maria! It’s funny how the light just turns on and everything becomes clear. love it!
….sniff….sniff….our baby’s growing up…..
Ha! Congrats, dude. Nobody deserves this more than….well…..congrats anyway!
Thanks Joe. I knew I could count on you for….well……thanks anyway. ;)
Jake, congratulations and welcome to the club! Continue writing relevant posts. BTW, your cookies are too delicious to resist. I took them so don’t look for it anymore. LOLz.
Hah! Don’t worry, I baked them for you :)
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Small blog? Yea right! You were featured on the front page of Yahoo!
Congrats on becoming a member and completing the challenge. Best of luck to you in the future. I’m sure you’ll continue to do great things.
Haha, yeah, that was a fun day :) Thanks!
Congratulations and Welcome to Yakezie Jake! Salmon dip and budgets! What more can I say?
Kind of the only reason I signed up ;)
I’ve enjoyed your site for quite some time now, glad to see you accomplish the challenge.
Congratulations. It took me trial and error to get to where I am today and I find myself steering others to conversation about personal finance/credit scores etc often. Ok, so I’ve lessen it a bit so not to be that guy. But, I agree many people are fascinated by personal stories. I think blogging about it is the perfect avenue to reach many others.