Self Sufficient Roots
I guess like anyone it began in my youth. My parents were pretty frugal partly out of necessity, I have six brothers and sisters, but also from their experience growing up in Boston during the 1930s. Some of my earliest memories are of the summer trips to Boston, all 9 of us crammed into the station wagon, stopping for breakfast along the Pennsylvania Turnpike and my Mom tossing bags of homemade snacks to us when we would get restless on our 12 hour journey.
My grandparents were French Canadian and both grew up on farms in Quebec so they had a strong work ethic and lived a self sufficient life. I can still remember the stories they would tell! Every fall my grandmother and her twelve brothers and sisters would harvest sap from the Maple trees in the forested hills of the farm she grew up on to make maple syrup. My Grandmother’s eyes would sparkle as she would tell us how the whole family would stay in a simple out building until the harvest was finished. I was taught what a self sufficient life is by helping my grandmother tend the grapes used for making wine or handing my grandfather a screwdriver while he was tinkering with the boat motor at their summer cottage in New Hampshire. My grandfather was a painter and was always tinkering or repairing something, they did not have the money to hire someone and probably wouldn’t if they did.
Like Father Like Son
My Pops learned from his Dad and so did I. There were many projects that I would help my Dad with. It seemed that the Family station wagon always needed a tune up or a rust hole repaired. I learned the fine art of applying sheet metal with pop rivets and the magic of body filler. If you owned a Ford in the 1970s you know what I’m talking about. These skills I would later use to keep my first car from falling apart as I travelled the pot holed roads of western Pennsylvania as a teen. One project that remains infamous to this day is when my Father decided to remodel the basement. He recruited my three brothers and I to lay tile, install paneling, and put in a drop ceiling. Since he was a nuclear physisist, (yup, he really did design nuclear power plants) he decided he would take care of the wiring. To make a long and hilarious story short, he ended up calling a neighbor who was a master electrician to undo most of what he did! I learned a lot from that project but most importantly I learned that sometimes you need to hire an expert!
No Pain No Gain
Fast forward a bit to High School. My parent’s provided us with a comfortable middle-class lifestyle but if we wanted something we would have to work for it. I worked part-time during high-school and managed to save enough money to purchase a 1969 Olds Cutlass with my younger brother. It was a piece of crap but I loved that car! Those auto repair skills I learned from my Father came in handy and I have the scars on my hands to prove it! I became more and more independent during those years and in my junior year my world was turned upside down when my parents divorced. After a few years of being angry at the world, I picked myself up and got on with my life. I applied and was accepted to college and graduated with a double major in accounting and Management Information Systems. I’m proud of the fact that I put myself through college, it was difficult but worth the sacrifice. I was hired by Westinghouse as a financial analyst and after 8 years became dissillusioned with corporate america. I decided there were more important things that I wanted to accomplish in my life and the work I was doing would not allow me to do that. I went back to college to get my teaching degree in Science and have been Teaching for 16 years now.
Teaching has been a tremendously rewarding experience and I don’t know too many other professions where you can make such an important impact in someone’s life on a daily basis. That is why I left corporate finance and that is why I continue to teach. Having said that, the compensation I receive for my efforts has been a dissapointment as I make roughly $20,000 less than someone with the same professional credentials and experience in the state I grew up in. Knowing that I needed to increase my income and the only way to do that was to generate additional income outside of Teaching, I enrolled in a program that would allow me to sit for the CFP. I completed the program and began looking into how I could best use the Financial Planning knowledge I gained from my coursework and it became apparent that I could not afford to quit Teaching and give up my retirement benefits for what looked to be years of apprenticeship, client building, and uncertain income.
Entering the Blogosphere
I started blogging as a way to share some of my financial background and make some money at the same time. Frugal Toad is about saving money plain and simple. If you are looking for personal narratives you’ll need to go elsewhere, I try to give readers practical money saving advice without wasting their time. It doesn’t always work but I try. One of my ventures, Bloggers Classifieds, grew out of my need as a rookie blogger to find help with the many tasks associated with running a blog. The idea was to create a place where bloggers could connect and share their products and services, a Craigslist for bloggers if you will. It has been well received and several Yakezie Members advertise their services there so I encourage you to check it out.
It has been such a privilidge being a part of Yakezie and getting to know so many of my fellow bloggers. I look forward to working with you in the coming months!
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Welcome, Frugal Toad! I have enjoyed your posts and interactions over the last year or so. I think you are a great example of how your upbringing has shaped your current financial outlook. That is a great lesson you can pass along to your students.
Thanks SS! I am teaching a personal finance course as a new elective course this year and am really looking forward to it. I think kids struggle with finances because they are not always taught how to handle money.
It takes a special type of person to get into teaching. My girlfriend’s mom was a teacher until it got too restrictive as to what you could and couldn’t do. Is your retirement system pretty stable where you are?
Thanks Lance, I have to agree with you there! Our retirement was much better when I first started 16 years ago, the contribution rate has gone from 2.35% to 11% now and is projected to reach 13% in a couple years. We are fortunate no doubt however, it is not the benefit that it once was.
Awesome story, Frugal Toad! As a blue collar guy, I think it’s great when people can fix their own cars and homes. Or at least know enough to know when you need help, and what needs to be done so you don’t get ripped off. I see so many contractors cut corners and rip people off, it makes me angry. Gives all contractor dudes a bad name! So while I don’t want to lose my profession, I always encourage people to do their research and DIY if they can. It’s great to see that you can or at least you know when to ask for help!
Starting out after graduating from college I would repair my car because I didn’t have the money. Now I repair my truck because I enjoy it, most of the time, and I can save money for other things. Glad you enjoyed the story TB!
Your article reminds me of how amazing each of our own life stories shape us and can also define who we are. It appears you are continuing to persevere and redefine who you are by going back to school, becoming a CFP, and now operating 2 websites. Who knows what will be next?
It’s clearly a lesson for all of us and your article shouts to me an overall theme.. “If you’re unsatisfied with life, take action and do something about it.” This is inspiring and is a motto I want to live by. Thanks for the great article.
I can’t see myself doing the same thing for too long. I would have a hard time getting up each day and dreading going to work because I didn’t enjoy what I was doing. You just have to find what you are passionate about and find a way to bring that into your daily life. Since I love being outdoors it is easy for me to bring that passion into the classroom!
I had no idea you weren’t a member already. Your blogger classified is a great idea too. Maybe one day I’ll have money to spend with some of your vendors.
I missed the cutoff for the Delta Class by 30 days so it’s been a year. Totally worth the wait though! Thanks Brent!
Welcome to the network! Love Blogger Classifieds and I wish you the best of luck with it.
Thanks Robert! Glad to see the site has been helpful to your business!
It sounds like your parents were very smart. I admire that you chose a profession that you love instead of continuing in a job you didn’t enjoy because of money. My husband is a teacher, so I understand the pros and cons. I have heard of blogger classifieds but wasn’t sure what it was. What a great idea! Good luck with all your endeavors.
Thanks Kim, I appreciate your kind words!
Well done, Paul, and great to learn some more about you. Teaching a PF course sound exciting.
Thanks Maria! I’m looking forward to teaching the PF course.
What a great introduction. Welcome, Paul. I’m also a teacher and it is frustrating how our pay doesn’t equate to our education or what we do – it’s pitiful, but only those that truly love it, stay with it. I love the bloggers classifieds idea, I’m going to check it out now.
Thanks LH and I knew there was a reason why I liked you, you’re a Teacher! Please check out Bloggers Classifieds and let me know what you think!
Howdy Paul, great to read your story! Must be nice now having such a big family!
I’ve looked into the teaching route myself via a PhD first, but wow, what a looong road to hoe that will be.
The PF course is much needed in offline life, and I hope you inspire our youth!
Best, Sam
Hey Sam! I also looked into Teaching at the College Level and decided I just did not have the time, money, or desire to get the PhD. I enjoy what I’m doing now and am excited to be teaching the personal finance class. Might even lead to a post or two. Thanks for all of your support Sam and the year wait was worth it!
As much respect as I have for teachers in general, I have even more for those that leave the private sector for it. My mentor in the teaching program did the same thing.
Thanks Edward, that means a lot coming from you! I’ve enjoyed reading your posts and I always learn something from you!
Hi Paul –
So great to have another mountain person in here (though thankful I dont live in that heat) so that we can finally convince sam that the mountain west is better than the west coast!
That must have been very inspiring to watch and learn while your grandfather and father did lots of DIY projects. I remember my dad doing a lot of that while we were growing up, and he’s been kind enough to show me how to do all that stuff on my own house this year.
Interesting mention about the tradeoff of very lean (or insecure) times if you were to leave teaching – have you found a way to increase income by doing CFP stuff part time or on the weekends?
Either way, if you want to get paid higher for teaching, move to wyoming! You’ll probably immediately get a raise of about 15k.
Jeff – I thought everyone knew Mountain was best! We are getting the house ready to sell and I have been busy with many DIY projects which reminds me of your new home. Have you finished the kitchen yet? As far as the CFP, I have the course work out of the way but don’t think I am going to sit for the exam at this point. I think what I might do is look into being a financial coach, helping people organize their financial lives. Thanks for your support Jeff!
Paul, happy to have you join. It’s been a pleasure getting to know you over the past little while. Good luck with blogger classifieds. I love the idea.
Glad to be a part of this great group Corey and I’ve really enjoyed getting to know you and watch you go after your dream. Best of luck with your business, hope you are getting some traffic from Bloggers Classifieds!
“Some of my earliest memories are of the summer trips to Boston, all 9 of us crammed into the station wagon, stopping for breakfast along the Pennsylvania Turnpike and my Mom tossing bags of homemade snacks to us when we would get restless on our 12 hour journey.”
Summer trips?! Humidity is a killer over there. In August in New England it hurts to take a deep breath if you’re within 50 miles of the ocean, haha.
Glad I was able to meet you Paul and glad you’ll be around!
We would stay at my Grandmother’s place in Newton Centre for a week and then all of us would meet my cousins at the Grandparent’s cottage on a lake in New Hampshire for a week. We had such a blast! I was born in Concord Mass. but grew up in Pittsburgh and remember those car trips being brutal! It’s been great getting to know you as well PK!
Welcome Frugal Toad! It’s nice being able to learn things from our parents and grandparents that stick with us for life. Everyone I know who is a teacher loves what they do and it must be so rewarding being able to influence others in positive ways.
I’m lucky I had such great Teachers Sidney! Thanks for your kind words!
I wish my family would have been more like yours with their finances, it could have saved me a ton of mistakes. Welcome Paul. :-)